Episode 28
Defining your Worth
In today's episode of the Becoming the Big Me Podcast Djemilah dives into the power of defining your worth and the magic that ensues when you do. Are you owning your value?
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Transcript
And here's the thing. Your ideal quantum clients will see your
Speaker:worth. Your ideal quantum clients are going to be happy
Speaker:and excited to invest in you and your business. Hello, fellow
Speaker:Earthlings.
Speaker:Welcome to the becoming
Speaker:the big me podcast. I'm your host, Djemilah, Birnie. And
Speaker:together, we will be stepping into our highest potential,
Speaker:exploring all things mind, body, and soul. With justice, major
Speaker:business, your spiritual badass solopreneur and a warrior for
Speaker:change, you're ready to expand your impact and leave your old
Speaker:self behind in order to raise your vibration so that you can
Speaker:positively influence your business, your community, and
Speaker:ultimately, the world. Without further ado, let's dive right
Speaker:into it.
Speaker:This episode was originally recorded as an online training.
Speaker:So if you hear any clicks, or you hear me refer to homework,
Speaker:that is why don't worry, there's no homework that you miss.
Speaker:But the information is extremely powerful. So I decided to pop it
Speaker:on to the podcast and I know that you will receive value from
Speaker:this
Speaker:episode,
Speaker:defining your worth.
Speaker:It all starts
Speaker:with belief. What do you believe that you are worthy of when you
Speaker:are dealing over with metaphysics when you are dealing
Speaker:with the quantum hologram of our universe, every single thing
Speaker:comes back to belief. What do you believe at your core to be
Speaker:available to you? What do you believe that you are worthy of
Speaker:having only you can define your worth you are the only person
Speaker:who has the ability to define what you get to have out of this
Speaker:human experience out of this life of yours. Only you get to
Speaker:decide that I know that it can be hard when you You're coming
Speaker:with price objections and people are going to question your
Speaker:worth. But that is based on their own scarcity of mindset
Speaker:that is based on their own perception of reality that is
Speaker:based on their own beliefs of what they are worth. Stop
Speaker:listening to the limiting beliefs of others. It has
Speaker:nothing to do with you. Other people's opinion of you are none
Speaker:of your business. It only matters what your beliefs are of
Speaker:you. And here's the thing, your ideal quantum clients will see
Speaker:your worth your ideal quantum clients are going to be happy
Speaker:and excited to invest in you and your business. And you need to
Speaker:set the standard of what your worth is you need to set the
Speaker:standard of what you are worth. In money terms you are you need
Speaker:to set the standard of what your time is worth and you also need
Speaker:to set the standard of how you deserve to be treated. Your
Speaker:quantum clients are going to treat you like the queen or king
Speaker:that you are. They are going to be excited to work with you
Speaker:they're not going to try and make you feel bad. Let's talk
Speaker:about the crab pot syndrome. It can be hard when you are
Speaker:stepping into a higher vibrational state when you are
Speaker:changing your life when you are earning more income. It can be
Speaker:hard because the people that have been around you up until
Speaker:this point might not understand the changes that you're going
Speaker:through. When there are people who have been around you since
Speaker:high school, who have had a very Similar past experience to you,
Speaker:and they start to watch you rise above and they start to watch,
Speaker:you create more and more with your life. The typical response
Speaker:is to try to pull you back down to their level, this is not a
Speaker:conscious thing. This is a subconscious thing. Because the
Speaker:higher that you climb the list they feel they can relate to
Speaker:you. And it also triggers them subconsciously, about their own
Speaker:self. If they see someone that came from the same background as
Speaker:them doing more than them, then subconsciously, they're going to
Speaker:start to feel a little bit bad about their own self. Now,
Speaker:obviously, that is not the proper belief, the proper belief
Speaker:is to think, Wow, if they can do it, then I can do it too. But in
Speaker:this world, generally, that's not how it works. So what is the
Speaker:crab pot syndrome? So the crab pot syndrome is an analogy used
Speaker:by
Speaker:I heard it first from my mom, actually, and what it is, I grew
Speaker:up on an Indian reservation and on this reservation, crabbing
Speaker:was huge. And when you go out and there people are crabbing,
Speaker:you'll see that they have this little pot with crabs in it. You
Speaker:know, the crabs can easily climb out of this pot, they could
Speaker:easily climb back into safety out of this pot, but they don't.
Speaker:And do you want to know why? When one crab starts to get this
Speaker:wild, crazy idea that it can climb out of this pot, the other
Speaker:Crabs will pull it back down into the pot, the other Crabs
Speaker:will not allow that crab to leave the pot, even though being
Speaker:in that pot is going to lead to their doom in their death, they
Speaker:will pull it back down into the pot. And this is what happens in
Speaker:our lives, with our relationships and with our
Speaker:friendships. Sometimes people will try to pull you back down
Speaker:to be with them with where they are at. Because that is how
Speaker:they've always known you. That's where they are comfortable
Speaker:having you. It is so important to define your worth when it
Speaker:comes to your business. Because you only want to work with
Speaker:people who also see your worth. If other people are questioning
Speaker:your worth, and then your business your product, your
Speaker:service is not for them. So what are you worth? What is your time
Speaker:worth? What are you worthy of having only you get to decide
Speaker:that only you get to choose what you are worthy of the moment
Speaker:that you give up the belief that you aren't worthy is the moment
Speaker:that everything becomes possible for you. You are literally
Speaker:capable of creating anything that you want you are capable of
Speaker:having the business of your desires, you are capable of
Speaker:having the client of your desires, you are worth it. The
Speaker:only thing that is holding you back is this glass ceiling that
Speaker:you have built for yourself in your subconscious mind. The only
Speaker:thing in the way of you and what you want
Speaker:at the end of the day
Speaker:is your beliefs about what you can have. This is why it is so
Speaker:important. If you want to attract your ideal quantum
Speaker:clients. If you want to have this profitable business where
Speaker:you get to live your purpose where you get to do the work
Speaker:that you love to do where you get to do what lights your soul
Speaker:on
Speaker:fire.
Speaker:You need to start in side you need to start with what are your
Speaker:beliefs about money do you believe you are worthy of having
Speaker:it? What do you believe having a lot of money means what are
Speaker:those internal programs They have been created throughout
Speaker:your lifetime to bring you to those beliefs, and how can you
Speaker:redefine them? How can you begin to make the shift to change your
Speaker:beliefs. The first step is to decide to decide that you want
Speaker:to change and decide that you are worthy and to decide that
Speaker:you
Speaker:can
Speaker:have it all. That is the very, very first step. It is the
Speaker:internal work that needs to be done first, so that you can
Speaker:begin to make the changes in
Speaker:your external
Speaker:reality to make it come true. You cannot just sit back and
Speaker:define your worth and say I'm worthy, and I am a millionaire.
Speaker:And I have all of this money, you have to take the physical
Speaker:actions as well. But it needs to start with the belief. And that
Speaker:is why this first week has all been about money. What are your
Speaker:beliefs about money? Where did they come from? How did they
Speaker:show how has money showed up in your life up into this point?
Speaker:And how are you showing up for money? When you begin to make
Speaker:these changes when you begin to make these small shifts in your
Speaker:belief, your external reality is going to change as well.
Speaker:Thank you for tuning into today's episode of The becoming
Speaker:the big me podcasts. If you found value in today's episode,
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Speaker:the power of your subconscious mind then join the free rewire
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Speaker:it works and give you some tangible action steps to began
Speaker:rewiring it to serve you go to bit.li slash rewire challenge
Speaker:that bit.li slash rewire challenge. Until next time. I'm
Speaker:your host Djemilah Birnie, signing out
