Building Your Relationship With Money

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means don't just be excited when money is entering your life. Be

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excited when it's leaving your life as well. Understand that

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when it is leaving your life, it's doing it for a purpose

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when.

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Hello, fellow Earthlings, welcome to the becoming the big

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into it.

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This episode was originally recorded as an online training.

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So if you hear any clicks, or you hear me refer to homework,

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that is why don't worry, there's no homework that you miss. But

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the information is extremely powerful. So I decided to pop it

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on to the podcast, and I know that you will receive value from

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this

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episode.

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How are you showing up for money? Money is a relationship

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that you need to nurture, and boster. In order for it to show

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up for you. I want you to think about

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how

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you behave, how the energy that you give towards money, when

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it's coming into your life. And when it's leaving your life. For

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this lesson, I want you to view money as if it were a human

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being that you had a relationship with. How would you

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feel if every single time that you went to go and hang out with

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say your significant other, they were super, super excited, super

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happy, super pumped up to have you there. But then every single

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time that you left, it turned into a big argument and a big

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fight because they didn't want you to leave. That doesn't feel

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very good does it does that make you want to continue showing up

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for that person.

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Money is the exact same way. You need to be consistent in how you

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are showing up for money. That means don't just be excited when

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money is entering your life. Be excited when it's leaving your

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life as well. Understand that when it is leaving your life.

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It's doing it for a purpose when you are paying your bills. You

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are getting a home to live in you are getting a phone to talk

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and you are getting internet to be able to interact with humans

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all across the world. So instead of holding stress, so instead of

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holding negative energy every single time that money leaves

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your life, I challenge you to change that belief system I

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challenge you to change the way that you are showing up for

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money, the way the energy that you are sending towards money

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when it leaves your life. Here is a tangible thing that you can

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do. When you are paying your bills, I want you to make sure

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that you are in a positive mindset. What I do is I have a

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money date with myself every week. I play upbeat music, I

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dance I light a candle, I get myself in an extremely high

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vibrational, positive emotional state to go into my date with my

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money to go into going over my finances to go into paying my

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bills with gratitude. And as I pay my bills, I think the money

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for what it has done for me, thank you so much for allowing

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me To have this beautiful home, in this beautiful neighborhood

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where my daughter can be safe, where I can feel safe,

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where I

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get to enjoy my life. Thank you so much for allowing me to

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continue to live here. And then I'll say a little affirmation.

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Every time money leaves my life, it blesses and multiplies and

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comes back to me tenfold. So when you are sending money out

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into the universe, you're sending this money out to re

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circulate, to bless other people's lives to create more

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abundance in this world, and it is going to come back to you

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multiplied, because you have allowed it to leave with ease,

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and you have allowed it to go out and bless others lives. Does

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that make sense to you? I hope that it does. It does seem a

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little bit woowoo to have a money date. But I promise you,

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this is a really important practice. For your relationship

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with money. I want you to treat money, as if it were a

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relationship. In fact, it is the most important relationship in

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your life. Because think of all of the things that money allows

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you to do for all of the other people that you love in your

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life. Now, if money isn't showing up for you in the way

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that you want it to, you need to look at how you are showing up

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for it. This isn't just a Give, give take take situation, we

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need to give and we need to give. And together that is how

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you are going to find yourself in a more abundant state in a

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more abundant state of mind.

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Thinking about money as a person, as a relationship, as a,

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as a personification of another human being. There's this really

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funny thing where it's kind of taboo to talk about finances.

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It's kind of taboo to talk about money with other people. And we

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feel uncomfortable, we get these weird feelings talking about it.

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Could you imagine if someone felt uncomfortable talking about

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their relationship with you, if they didn't want to share to

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other people that you were in their life? How would that feel?

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It's the same with money. It is a relationship that you need to

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foster it is a relationship that you need to grow and to create

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if you want it to show up more for you in your life you need to

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think about how you are showing up for it

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in your life.

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